Can a 10-second daily video, shared for 100 days really transform someone?
On February 25th I began a new journey for my healing transformation. In 100 Days I planned to nourish myself. It wasn't only all about the food (though sometimes it was) or about what or how I ate. Nourishment has layers and what I truly wanted was to feed my soul. When I decided to dedicate 100 days to do this, courage and trust became essential. GiveIt100.com (a social media platform where other like-minded individuals wanted to learn something in 100 days too) played landscape to my journey. A place where it's foundation of support offered a way to document the healing work I was doing. Diving in, a deep sense of knowing came forward, I knew how important this tool would be to helping me grow the garden of my heart.
Where I Began
It started off; the way most journeys of the self, back to the self, begin. I was unsure of the final destination, didn't know what I would "have" to do or what I would "have" to give up. An element of trust was needed
and a deep belief arose and I knew that at the conclusion of the 100 days, I'd arrive
exactly where I was meant to be and that I would learn something about myself, no matter what. What I discovered along the way, is that in the creating, editing and sharing of my videos; my ability to
be loving, gentle and compassionate with myself grew.
In my work world, my organizational skills are always by my side and a good check list never far behind. So I applied this concept to this project; if I was going to pour time, energy and love into this, I wanted to understand my purpose. I wrote about my intentions with this journey Manifesto for My Upcoming 100 Day Journey.
Incorporating beautiful "real" foods was one piece. In the 16 months prior to
February 25, I'd been on a cleanse (yes, a 16 month cleanse). My body
celebrated joyously with the elimination of gluten, dairy and refined sugars.
And as I honored my body, I discovered a life of less pain. I began transforming weight (100+ pounds on my last weigh-in in February), no more stomach issues, no more migraines and my body began menstruating without the assistance of any prescription medications. The use of supplemental shakes for 2 meal replacements helped me get there, though something shifted around
the holidays (I know what it is, I'm just not able to write in there yet). Though in this shift, I noticed that familiar place I return to when I finish one leg of the journey and am just on the verge of embracing another. I arrive and an old
familiar thought comes in, "ok, you can stop
here. You've done so much. Healed, learned and feel so much better, honestly, isn't this far enough?" Thankfully through meditation, awareness and compassion, I knew what was happening, so I took my time and discovered that a new
piece of my heart wanted to be honored and the desire to nourish resonated within my soul.
Being Ready
The idea of being "ready" often brushes up against different parts of me in uncomfortable ways. Were my life, soul and heart truly "ready" for this journey? YES! (sang with a resounding heart glow) Was my mind or the pieces that were use to staying in the darkness "ready"? Um, no, not really! (uttered under the breath, trying not be noticed)
So it took a lot of courage (and self-compassion) to notice both and honor what is truly best for me.
Reaching out to receive support was essential and Maggie Christopher, my holistic nutrition counselor, arrived into my life when I was ready. Amazingly enough I'd kept her business card for 3 years and as I was cleaning in the dark of winter, her card was found with a light of hope. My soul knew Maggie would help me find the keys I needed for my journey of nourishment. Partnering together in a sacred space, with the support she provided and my willingness to lean in, I discovered growth, compassion and healing when doors were opened with keys of love.
When I began incorporating real foods, first for my lunches and then 2 weeks later for breakfast, I needed to make space for my fears of and with food. Patience and time sat beside me as I navigated where I could. And in the last few months, I now claim the title of a fearless food prepper (give me an organized shopping trip Thursday/Friday with batch cooking on Sunday and I'm happy & set for the week.) And while the shakes are still here, they live in the "every so often" category, rather than a staple meal.
Reaching Day 100
So when I look back, yes, a 10-second daily video, shared for 100 days really can transform someone. As I reached my final 100th day on June 5th, I
needed time to write this blog post. And while I was celebrating with friends and family, it seemed inauthentic for me to "write, just to
write". So I created space for the silence, to allow for the time away from this blog to be a time of reflection and honoring.
And while I may not have crossed everything off from my check list, what I "thought" was going to be important, was minor compared
to what stepped forward when I honored my intuition. I trusted someone new (again, thank you, Maggie), used a new tool (thank you, GiveIt100.com) and found myself creating an authentic relationship with food, my body and myself. Being present in and with
the experience, I discovered my ability to be compassionate and courageous. To
see the old patterns for what they are, honor them and release them with love. Because the truth is; they no longer fit me or the life I want to live.
Those little 10-second videos may only have shown snip-its of what was happening, though in the process they are my tribute to the journey I am on and I am grateful. Transformation, mindfulness and self-compassion didn't happen to me in one
10-second video, it was in a series acts of being engaged, intentional and creating what I wanted.
Sometimes this meant sharing when I didn't "think" I could and honoring the
little voice inside of me that said, "Give It A Try"
